I Don’t Want To Convince People. I Want To Share What I Live Through
I do not want to persuade anyone. I do not want to run after people and prove to them that they need something. I feel closer to another way: to go through the experience myself, see what it gives me, understand it in my own life and only then speak about it calmly.
I Don’t Want To Convince People. I Want To Share What I Live Through
I understand more and more that people do not need another set of nice words. People want to see that there is real life behind the words. That is why it is important for me not just to talk about a product, health or a new direction. It is important for me to live it myself. Only then the conversation feels normal, and not like an attempt to sell something.
This article is about how I want to speak with people. Not to push. Not to run ahead of the person. Not to pretend that I know everything. But simply to share what I try myself and what has really become part of my life.
I have been thinking a lot about how to speak correctly about a new direction, a product and my own experience.
Because on one side, when something really appears in your life, you naturally want to talk about it.
But on the other side, it is very easy to cross the line and start sounding like you are no longer having a conversation, but selling.
I do not want that.
I do not want a person to open my page and immediately feel: now someone will try to push something on me.
I want people to see a normal path. Family. Thoughts. First videos. Health. Mistakes. Attempts. Small steps.
And the product and business should not be a separate performance. They should be part of this path.
I do not like being persuaded myself
I think many people understand this.
When a person has not even had a normal conversation with you yet, but is already offering something, you immediately want to take a step back.
Not because the product is bad.
But because the conversation did not start with the person.
I do not want to do it that way.
For me, it is important to remain a person first. Not a seller. Not someone with a ready answer for everything. Not someone who thinks he knows better than others what they need.
Just a person who tries something, observes, makes conclusions and shares it openly.
If it speaks to someone, that person will ask a question.
My approach
- Try it myself first
- Speak simply
- Do not exaggerate
- Do not rush people
- Show a real path
- Stay myself
Experience first, words later
I think this is a very simple and honest order.
First, you try it yourself.
You look at what changes.
You listen to yourself.
You look at your day, your energy, your well-being, your mood.
And only after that, you speak.
Because when you live it yourself, your words become different.
They no longer sound like a memorized text.
They sound simpler. Calmer. More human.
And this is how I want to speak.
A product should not look separate from life
I am now learning to show a product very simply.
Not as something artificial.
Not as a separate advertisement.
But as part of an ordinary day.
If I drink something in the morning, if it has become part of my rhythm, if I try it myself, then I can speak about it normally.
Without complicated phrases.
Without big claims.
Simply: this is my day, this is what I do, this is what I am trying, this is what is now in my life.
I already wrote about my first steps with video in the article “I Am Learning To Show Myself” . That article is exactly about how I started not only writing, but also slowly appearing on camera.
Trust does not come from one post
You cannot simply ask for trust.
You cannot put it in your profile description.
You cannot get it only because you wrote a good text.
Trust appears gradually.
When people see that you do not disappear.
That you speak roughly the same way as you live.
That your tone does not change only because you want to offer something.
That you can simply share, not only sell.
That is why consistency matters to me.
I wrote about this in the article “If You Want Something Tomorrow, You Need To Do Something Today” . Because trust is also built from small actions that repeat over time.
I do not want to speak to everyone in the same way
People are different.
Someone has questions about health.
Someone is simply tired.
Someone is looking for a new direction.
Someone came to read because they are interested.
Someone does not want to change anything yet.
And that is normal.
That is why one ready-made text for everyone does not work for me.
I want to see the person.
Their state. Their questions. Their readiness. Their rhythm.
Because a normal recommendation does not start with a product.
It starts with understanding the person.
It is important for me not to lose my own voice
In any new direction, there are many examples around.
Someone speaks very confidently.
Someone records beautiful videos.
Someone has already built an audience.
And of course, you can learn from that.
But I do not want to become a copy of someone else.
It is important for me that in my texts, videos and normal conversations, I remain myself.
My experience. My family. My humor. My path. My words.
Because this is what creates trust.
Try
Do not speak about something that has not become part of your own experience.
Explain
In simple words, without unnecessary decoration and without complicated wording.
Do not rush
Give the person time. If they are interested, they will want to learn more themselves.
I do not need a conversation that leaves a person uncomfortable
I do not want a person to think after speaking with me: “He pushed me into something”.
That is a bad feeling.
And I do not like it when someone does that to me either.
I feel much closer to a conversation that leaves a normal feeling.
We talked. We shared thoughts. The person heard something. Maybe they thought about it. Maybe they asked more.
Or maybe they simply moved on.
And that is also fine.
This website helps me speak more calmly
I like that on the website, I do not need to shout.
I do not need to hurry.
I can explain a thought normally.
Through stories. Through examples. Through family. Through health. Through my own path.
That is why this website is important to me.
I am not just collecting articles here.
I am slowly building my position.
How I want to live. How I want to speak. How I want to build trust. How I want to share what I am going through myself.
I do not want to convince
If a person is not interested, they do not need to be pulled.
If they have questions, I can answer.
If they need time, I can give them time.
If they are not ready, that is their right.
I feel closer to another way.
Be honest. Show my experience. Speak simply. Do not exaggerate. Do not push. Stay myself.
For me, this is stronger than any convincing.
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I want to share what I live through myself
This is the most honest way I see right now. First, try it myself. Observe. Make conclusions. Speak in simple words. Do not rush people. Do not push. Do not play someone else’s role. Just calmly share what has really become part of my life.
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